Well,, I do believe that homosexuals are mostly born. My beloved brother was gay ... we were so close, I miss him. But he would snag my mom’s Vogues and Harper’s Bazaars at the mailbox.
I was a lot younger than he was, but we would curl up in a chair and he would make me decide between the clothes on any two pages: liked or didn’t like.
I always told him the truth but i suspected e knew more than me.
He studied to be an architect and then he left for Oxford England where he studied medieval classics.I was so happy when he came home. Some times he would stay at my house.
Then, one day he hd a heart attack when he was alone. i was devastated. I still “talk” to him. He was 43.
I’ve lived in “gay neighborhoods. They are friendly, but I’ve never wanted to get that friendly with them. In the end, yes, they are screwed up.
Funny, as my brother was politically conservative and, as a result, it rubbed off on me.
One sad story. :(
At one time, I would agree that most homosexuals are born that way, but many are "made" into homosexuals, as young teens ( or earlier ) by an older or same age homosexual who has sexual something with the child; either rape or consensual.
NOW ? Now I really DO believe that quite a number decide to be an homosexual to be "cool"/"in" and/or get attention.
And the "fem" stereotype is more often than not, just a big put on....a LEARNED/COPIED behavior!