I think its about power
And freaky submission maybe
And violence of course to a degree
Sadly throughout history rape was often just a spoil of consumate victory ...literally
I sure don’t understand it...I prefer my woman to ache for my carnal attention
Forget rape lord Almighty...I never even wished to beg or plead or bargain
Men like to feel wanted too....and needed..
Like girls do
Men who can’t get a woman through normal means either call an escort or masturbate to whatever usually visual stimuli
Men who rape either do it for the historical aforementioned war violence or just cause they are mean or warped....damaged..
Its about sexual release through violence and detachment
And sick fantasy......you hear testimony how often rapists dirty talk their victim like she’s their freaky girlfriend
Its really sick sick sick....think Bundy
And you’re right..its not about being an alternative for a man to get a desirous woman by force..
Although the high incidence of black men who rape blonde women does tell that attraction can play a role
But then why do rapists often rape really old women?
Its really an ugly thing...I just can’t imagine how a man could live with doing that to a girl....every woman I’ve known in 57 years to suffer as such has had a hard road back to normalcy
Its just messes everything up
I think Cosby has had far too many accusations...my common sense says so
You did great with Gay
About Cosby’s views:http://hollowverse.com/bill-cosby/
Thanks, Wardaddy. You get it, exactly. Whenever I’m with men and the subject of rape, or even worse, child rape, comes up, and they confide in me, they all say they could never even be aroused if a woman they were holding down was screaming in distress. And they couldn’t imagine (most of them have daughters or sons) being aroused at an innocent child, even naked.
When I see my naked toddler, I think “beautiful little body, so sweet, cute.” Not SEX. And most men feel the same way. I think normal adults see innocent children and think beautiful and cute and want to PROTECT them. Not destroy their lives for ones own sexual pleasure.
It’s a different species who doesn’t want interplay and free, passionate giving. If gay state’s sex life is just him holding down a woman for a few minutes then letting her go, he’s doing it wrong. Or.... Do we know Cosby’s FR handle? (GSC, I am only teasing - I really only want to stress to you and others that a rapist, while experiencing his OWN sexual pleasure, is not in it for the same reasons a normal man is.)
I listened to my dad’s old records of Bill Cosby, Ive seen his shows and commercials, and I would have thought he was normal. I would never have known he would prefer raping a comatose girl to having loving marital relations with his beautiful wife. He is NOT whom I thought he was. Yes, I believe all the “smoke.” I have personal reasons to believe these stories if they ring true to me.