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Frustrated husband creates spreadsheet detailing reasons why his wife would not have sex
The Daily Mail ^ | 21 July 2014 | Richard Spillett

Posted on 07/21/2014 9:55:20 PM PDT by MinorityRepublican

A spreadsheet that a man emailed his wife detailing her reasons for turning him down for sex has been shared by thousands of people online.

For a whole month, the 26-year-old sexually-frustrated husband jotted down every response from his other half when he asked her for intimacy.

He then collated the information and put it into an Excel document before cruelly emailing her as she arrived at an airport ahead of a ten-day business trip.

(Excerpt) Read more at dailymail.co.uk ...


TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: excel; excuses; lists; napl; nottonight
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To: Bobalu

SHE posted it online, not him. There’s definitely some underlying resentment here on her part (and now on his)


81 posted on 07/22/2014 7:32:53 AM PDT by Shimmer1 (If chocolate fudge cake could sing, it would sound like Barry White.)
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To: Bobalu

SHE posted it online, not him. There’s definitely some underlying resentment here on her part (and now on his)


82 posted on 07/22/2014 7:36:33 AM PDT by Shimmer1 (If chocolate fudge cake could sing, it would sound like Barry White.)
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To: Shimmer1

Sorry for the double post. My screen didn’t load for several minutes, so I came back and clicked Post again. But it had posted.


83 posted on 07/22/2014 7:37:44 AM PDT by Shimmer1 (If chocolate fudge cake could sing, it would sound like Barry White.)
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To: BwanaNdege

he’s too busy filling in spread sheets..... rather than bed sheets


84 posted on 07/22/2014 7:41:39 AM PDT by Nifster
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To: MediaMole
Second, it’s pretty clear she isn’t getting much out of the sex. He’s probably a roll over and go to sleep kind of “lover.”

Maybe not.

My wife was molested by her father starting at the age of ten years old. I knew this early on in our relationship but the way she acted and treated me I was convinced she had found a way to heal and find a way to make her life better.

Her treatment of me changed on our wedding day and it took me a long time to figure out what the definition of a Sociopath was and that it fit her perfectly.

I was not the roll over and sleep type and tried literally hundreds of things to make the physical portion of our marriage great for her. Nothing worked because she did not want it to work. She had sex with me just enough that it kept me around, although very frustrated, and thus she had my job and income to brag about. That was important to her as she never, and still has problems with how she perceives herself.

85 posted on 07/22/2014 7:46:34 AM PDT by OldMissileer
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To: windcliff

I used to be able to say I hadn’t showered for some three years or so. Now it’s been about two weeks.


86 posted on 07/22/2014 7:46:40 AM PDT by onedoug
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To: JimRed

Good point - obviously there was more wrong with that marriage than just her saying no, or being gross....


87 posted on 07/22/2014 8:02:35 AM PDT by WhyisaTexasgirlinPA
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To: Republican1795.

Oh darn, I just recently read about some movie star who said she liked her men kind of smelly but can’t recall who it was now..... I”m the opposite - I love that my Marine smells so clean!


88 posted on 07/22/2014 8:04:02 AM PDT by WhyisaTexasgirlinPA
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To: WhyisaTexasgirlinPA
Oh darn, I just recently read about some movie star who said she liked her men kind of smelly

Lassie?

89 posted on 07/22/2014 8:06:44 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: dfwgator

Haha


90 posted on 07/22/2014 8:10:39 AM PDT by WhyisaTexasgirlinPA
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To: DemforBush
Or D.) he lacks skill in the bedroom.
91 posted on 07/22/2014 8:16:32 AM PDT by liberalh8ter (The only difference between flash mob 'urban yutes' and U.S. politicians is the hoodies.)
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To: Shimmer1
SHE posted it online, not him. There’s definitely some underlying resentment here on her part (and now on his)

She posted a private marital communication on the internet for the purpose of ridiculing her husband.

For that one act alone, I would have walked out and started divorce proceedings.

92 posted on 07/22/2014 8:38:21 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (You don't notice it's a police state until the police come for you.)
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To: OldMissileer
My wife was molested by her father starting at the age of ten years old. I knew this early on in our relationship but the way she acted and treated me I was convinced she had found a way to heal and find a way to make her life better.

Her treatment of me changed on our wedding day and it took me a long time to figure out what the definition of a Sociopath was and that it fit her perfectly.

If she fits the definition of sociopath, then the story about her dad is most likely a lie. A sociopath will say whatever she needs to say in order to manipulate people, with no regard for the truth.

93 posted on 07/22/2014 8:40:49 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (You don't notice it's a police state until the police come for you.)
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To: liberalh8ter
Or D.) he lacks skill in the bedroom.

Which can only be cured by practice and feedback.

94 posted on 07/22/2014 8:42:05 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (You don't notice it's a police state until the police come for you.)
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To: PapaBear3625
Agreed......a spreadsheet isn't going to help.
95 posted on 07/22/2014 8:43:34 AM PDT by liberalh8ter (The only difference between flash mob 'urban yutes' and U.S. politicians is the hoodies.)
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To: Dacula
What happened on June 5,7,8,14,15,17,23,24,25,26,28,July 2,7,8,9?

Maybe he didn't even bother to ask those days.

96 posted on 07/22/2014 8:59:32 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Elian Gonzalez sought asylum and was sent back to Cuba, send these kids back to THEIR parents.)
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To: TalonDJ

So much just depends on personal chemistry. Given that I’m both new here and have no particular desire to relate too many details of my life, I’ll just say that I was married for 17 years to a woman who had little interest in sex and eventually came to believe it was on me. I finally divorced a year ago, met a lovely woman in November, and no, it’s not me. And maybe it wasn’t the ex, either. Some people just don’t have that kind of chemistry.


97 posted on 07/22/2014 9:00:56 AM PDT by baltiless
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To: MinuteGal

I assume this is an American couple. If it was a British bird, she’d be watching a rerun of East Enders rather than Friends.


98 posted on 07/22/2014 9:02:56 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Elian Gonzalez sought asylum and was sent back to Cuba, send these kids back to THEIR parents.)
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To: spokeshave
"This thread is useless without pics of the pair" bill hillary photo: Bill and Hillary Clinton washingtonshappiestcouple.jpg
99 posted on 07/22/2014 9:43:49 AM PDT by Morgana ( Always a bit of truth in dark humor.)
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To: Graewoulf
Man-up Dude, and tell her, not us!

He did.

100 posted on 07/22/2014 10:31:41 AM PDT by jimt (Fear is the darkroom where negatives are developed.)
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