[wideawake]

If people should “read up” on this, please provide a link. I’ve never heard of a clinical study about “this stuff catches up with you in your 40s.”

[MrEdd]

http://www.amazon.com/Transforming-Trauma-Understanding-Treating-Survivors/dp/080395509X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1397741385&sr=8-1&keywords=anna+salter+trauma

Done. This text book condenses things pretty well.

[Misterioso]

If people should “read up” on this, please provide a link.

You need "a link" to be encouraged to read a book. This explains your ignorance.