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To: PapaBear3625
Part of the pre-vetting is that a man in a relationship seems safe. A women hung out with him, went over to his place, spent the night in his bed - and didn't wind up beaten up or dead or locked in a box under the bed.

My dad pointed that out to me when after a girlfriend of mine attended a Crew race and I suddenly noticed a TON of female attention from women on the Crew team. She was hot - so I was obviously desired by hot women - and she was healthy and happy and SAFE, and coming back for more - all good indications.

For single guys I recommend NEVER taking “in a relationship” off your status on Facebook or other sites - and as you recommended - hanging out with a beautiful woman can NEVER hurt.

Cultivate friendships with women single guys - when you are single OR in a relationship. One woman I met on the Crew team many years ago is still a close friend - and besides the benefits of female advice and a hot woman to hang out with where other women can see - she has hooked me up several times with single women she knows.

As much as I would have liked to have “hit that” years ago - maintaining a friendship has paid dividends year after year.

74 posted on 05/16/2012 8:34:54 AM PDT by allmendream (Tea Party did not send GOP to DC to negotiate the terms of our surrender to socialism)
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To: allmendream; PapaBear3625
Part of the pre-vetting is that a man in a relationship seems safe. A women hung out with him, went over to his place, spent the night in his bed - and didn't wind up beaten up or dead or locked in a box under the bed.

So many people sabotage their own relationships/dating/marriages with basic, simple errors ahead of time.

A guy I work out with is in his late 40's, never married. Super nice guy, above average looks and is fit with a good job. Problem is he still lives with his parents-never moved out. As soon as women find out before dating him or after the first date they run like the wind. He is automatically looked upon as a loser.

My uncle married a woman in her late 30's-both their first marriages though he dated a lot in the past. Divorced 2 years later. She was a virgin when he met her and guess what? She was as frigid as a popsicle. Zero sex drive. Sex maybe 5-6 times per year not matter what he did. He should have put 2+2 together and figured ahead of time sex was not a priority in her life... at that age with her still being a virgin and should have discussed it in detail what to expect. We asked him what were you thinking?

82 posted on 05/16/2012 9:56:24 AM PDT by trailhkr1 (All you need to know about Zimmerman, innocent = riots, manslaughter = riots, guilty = riots)
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