LOL! Some women are terrible at picking a mate. My second husband is not perfect, but then, neither am I. We may both be a little crazy, but we’re kind to each other, are madly in love, and both thank God every day for bringing us together. (My first husband, an OCD insanely jealous (for absolutely NO reason) possessive nightmare, has purposely remained unmarried for the last twenty one years, so he can play the victim, and tell everyone I ruined his life)
On my second and successful marriage, I think that a future spouse should be selected by a group of family members and some friends. That should go a long way on weeding out the truly incompatibles.