How do you explain it?
Please ignore that bit of advice.
Yes, dogs grieve.
*Deeply*.
Even to the point of being detrimental to their health...or worse.
They also live in the moment so give her a brand new “moment” as soon as you can.
Her grief needs to be redirected and her mind occupied by a new buddy.
It’s what I would do.
:)
Like with a child. Your dog understands the language you speak. They also understand intent. Every word doesn’t have to be a known word to be understood. Keep having this conversation with the survivor until you feel the sadness lift.
I don’t remember your baby’s name so I’ll use Ruby (my dear passed Shepherd).
“I know you miss Ruby. We all do. She didn’t leave because she wanted to. She died. We grow and we live and we die. Everyone does. It’s sad, but it’s okay. It’s a natural thing, and it’s normal to miss her. I miss her too. You may can see her. I can’t, but dogs are special like that, so if you do see her you’ll see she’s feeling good. Her aches and pains are gone, and even if you don’t see her know that she’s here, just not physically like we are. It’s okay to be sad, we can be sad together, it will pass. What will remain is the joy she brought to us, and we see her again. One day we will pass too and she’ll be waiting for us.”
That general message, however you word it, will sink in. Have that conversation as often as it takes. Some get it right away, some over several days. I’ve been working with dogs, (not professionally, I just have a affinity for them), for over 40 years, and have explained death many times. They always understand.
I apologize for not getting back to you sooner. I’ve been offline a lot in the last few days and simply didn’t think to check up on you.
God bless.