Women Who Humiliate Their Husbands

Had Enough Therapy? ^ | 2-1-2015 | Stuart Schneiderman

[servo1969]

"The most devastating thing a woman can do to her man is to hold him in contempt. That is so devastating to a marriage that, over time, it is often more toxic than an affair. I am fairly certain that more marriages survive an affair, as difficult as that is, than contempt. Of course, this goes in both directions, but when a woman shows contempt toward her man, his very manhood is called into question." - Dennis Prager

[C. Edmund Wright]

Prager is right.

And one way women demean men is in advertising.....every white dude on a commercial is a dolt - unless he’s a feminized lib hipster type.

[kearnyirish2]

I think men don’t marry anymore because besides the onerous legal burden placed on them if the wife so much as loses interest in being married, they view those commercials as what every day for the rest of their lives will be like if they get married (kids loving mom while despising dad, mom disparaging dad in front of the kids, etc.).

[PapaBear3625]

The most devastating thing a woman can do to her man is to hold him in contempt.

For women, love and admiration go together. Men understand that a woman cannot love a man she does not admire.

For a man, when a woman belittles him in front of others, what she's really communicating, whether she realizes it or not, is that it's time for him to move on.

[Gaffer]

Pretty much true. You can look at the newest round of TV series offerings to see every diverse group in the world - all of them completely sane, rational, intelligent, loving, caring and kind - except for the idiot white male buffoon.

[Old Sarge]

If you are asking yourselves where America’s absent fathers are, and if you note that a large number of children grow up without a father in the home, you might consider the off chance that some of these emotionally abusive wives have driven their husbands off.

[C. Edmund Wright]

Yep, and then there’s the 12 year old black kid from Detroit who’s going to “major in political science, get a law degree, then come back to Detroit and boost the economy” - because as we know, political science and a law degree teaches one so much about economics.

[AppyPappy]

Why would I want to get married? I like sex.

[DallasGal]

A woman like myself finds it difficult to stomach what feminism had done not only to men, but to women. I can’t stand it when I see good men being treated poorly. Feminism discounts love, honor, and respect for your husband because you don’t need a man for anything

[Adder]

Women rightfully did not like it when men demeaned them individually or collectively. It was always in a patronizing sort of way for the most part. More of the “Poor dear just can’t handle man work...” sort of thing.

These women today, now that they have gotten to parity, are vicious harpy bitches not content use to a little eye rolling “Men!” type commentary but are hateful, spiteful and mean: they very thing they accused men of being for so many years.

Pity my grandson who has to deal with it.

[Junk Silver]

“Are you a woman who wants to poach another woman’s husband? Try telling him this: If you were my husband I would never let you do the laundry.”

Nonsense. Just tell him you will treat him with respect, acknowledge that he’s a man and never publicly mock him. No need to even bring up the laundry.

I would advise any young man in the USA to be very careful about marriage. The culture that most American women have been brought up in is a horror show, and the legal system is sure as hell not on your side.

See if you can find a nice church-going girl far from the big urban centers.

[Gaffer]

Well, there is such a dirth of legally trained political activist organizers in Detroit, isn't there? That should make things all better. Financial/fiscal responsibility is racist. /s

[2ndDivisionVet]

Sounds like he’s describing my first marriage.

[C. Edmund Wright]

Another part of this humiliation comes from just about every new comedian and sadly, every new preacher. Seems they always resort to the cliched wife is always right - husband always wrong - blah blah blah predictable stuff.

It’s everywhere. It reinforces itself. I am blessed that this is not the case in our house. Heck, in our house, the rule is “if daddy ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.”
As it should be.

[C. Edmund Wright]

Yeah, you right....my bad.....what WAS I thinking?????

[Flick Lives]

The worst part, Childs avers, is that women have gotten into the habit of demeaning their husbands in front of their children:

This is the worst. Reducing a man to nothing more than a punching bag or a scapegoat. An object on which to heap abuse.

Dogs get better treatment. Indeed if one verbally punished a dog every time it walked in a room, the dog would learn to cower and run away. I wonder if perhaps this just might be one of the reasons divorce rates are now 50%.

[Junk Silver]

“Another part of this humiliation comes from just about every new comedian and sadly, every new preacher. “

When’s the last time we saw a competent, confident husband/father portrayed in a TV sit-com? Years ago my kids liked to watch the Disney channel, and I found it very troubling that every single dad in the shows was a lazy, bumbling oaf, always needing their much smarter wives to save the day.

[Jack Hydrazine]

Women mock their husbands and the people mock their government.

[IronJack]

It's blatant in pop culture that

1) Men can't cook. Any attempt will result in a culinary disaster and leave the kitchen looking like a tsunami swept through;
2) Men are either pushover ninnies or drill-sergeant tyrants when it comes to raising kids. In any case, they're incompetent;
3) Men are bungling boobs when it comes to home repairs, lawn care, and other traditionally male duties around the house;
4) Men are barely competent in bed, and most must be guided with a firm but loving hand in the arts of the caress;
5) Men drop their dirty socks everywhere, spill potato chips and Cheez-Whiz on the couch while watching football games with their boorish buddies, and don't put the toilet seat down;
6) Without a maternal superwoman at his side, the average American male could not dress himself, feed himself, get off to work on time, or function in polite society without either humping the hostess' leg or peeing on the parlor rug.

But at least there's no sexist stereotyping going on ...

[C. Edmund Wright]

yep, and even on NCIS - who’s the boss? Either a woman or the black guy? Who is the only character in the series to have a normal family? The black guy.

BUT wait, it just dawned on me...Law and Order Criminal Intent - always has the while male super cop and his white female assistant. Damn. We found one.