I slammed a cops door one time when I got out of the car after he wrote me a completley bogus end of the month ticket. He jumped out of the car and was in my face immediately, and ready to kick my butt.... I told him it wasn't his car, and that I owned part of that car because my tax dollars bought it and I could slam the door if I damn well pleased. Fortunately... there were enough people watching that he backed down. I think this is the mentality we see way to often.
I think I see your problem...