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Stop Saying “That’s So Gay!”: 6 Types of Microaggressions That Harm LGBTQ People
Psychology Benefits Society ^ | February 7, 2014 | http://psychologybenefits.org/2014/02/07/anti-lgbt-microaggressions/

Posted on 02/23/2014 9:11:47 PM PST by Impala64ssa

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To: Flick Lives; All

If luggbutts (LGBT etc. — if there is a standard order to the letters nobody has posited it yet) hate it, it may not be half bad.

“Gay” in its current sense might be an apt word to describe something that has gotten passionately and showily sidetracked into illegitimate things en route to its intended goal, and is currently frozen in impotence.

Example: “The GOP is so gay.”


81 posted on 02/24/2014 5:58:41 AM PST by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
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To: Flick Lives; All

Example: “The GOP is so gay.”

(And, the Tea Party is reparative therapy.)


82 posted on 02/24/2014 6:00:53 AM PST by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
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To: John O

Looking for love in the wrong place.

These folks are dissing God, Who would actually give them something better to do and be if they gave Him a chance.

Trouble is, a lot if not most are busy cussing God out. He can’t even get close until they are willing to quit that.


83 posted on 02/24/2014 6:03:17 AM PST by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
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To: Impala64ssa

Perhaps the homosexuals should stop telling all of us what to do. That’s more than microaggression.


84 posted on 02/24/2014 6:15:08 AM PST by MortMan (Is a delayed shower a "stay of exablution"?)
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To: Harmless Teddy Bear
build a bridge and get over it

Yep.

There were a few boys at my HS who ridiculed me, too. I'd make a guess that's true for dammed near everyone. This fool needs to dump his persecution complex and get on with his life.

I'd say that this author is symptomatic of the whole "anti-bullying" thing that we're seeing in society today. It would seem that young people think that they have the God-given right to always feel good about themselves, and always to have their actions positively affirmed by everyone, everywhere.

What a cold bucket of water real life will be when it hits them in the face. I'm not looking forward to adjudicating every perceived slight and insult amongst my employees in a few years. "Mr WBill! He looked like he might disrespect my selection of gender for today!! Make him stoooooop!!"

85 posted on 02/24/2014 6:21:33 AM PST by wbill
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To: Impala64ssa

The Alinskyites have a patent on “microagression.” It’s called Rule #5.


86 posted on 02/24/2014 7:22:09 AM PST by E. Pluribus Unum (If Barack Hussein Obama entertains a thought that he does not verbalize, is it still a lie?)
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To: Impala64ssa; GeronL; Revolting cat!
When I was a Republican, there were a few liberals in the media who ridiculed me, almost everyday. When I voted, they called me a “racist”. I learned to continue watching the news without showing any reaction; I could not let them know that it bothered me, or else I would be proving to them that I was indeed a racist. I didn’t tell anyone about the bullying (not my president, friends, or anyone) because admitting that I was being harassed for being Republican would mean that I was admitting to being racist. I had never felt so alone in my life.
#REWRITTEN4TRUTH

The author's point is not valid. Just because you are called something does not make it an epithet (it may be true). Just because you complain about it doesn't validate their remark.

Here is the original for comparison:

When I was a teenager, there were a few boys at my high school who ridiculed me, almost everyday. When I walked by them in the halls, they called me a “faggot” or screamed my name in a flamboyant tone. I learned to walk by without showing any reaction; I could not let them know that it bothered me, or else I would be proving to them that I was indeed gay. I didn’t tell anyone about the bullying (not my parents, teachers, or anyone) because admitting that I was being teased for being gay would mean that I was admitting to being gay. I had never felt so alone in my life.

87 posted on 02/24/2014 8:21:23 AM PST by a fool in paradise ("Health care is too important to be left to the government.")
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2) Endorsement of heteronormative culture and behaviors: - These kinds of microaggressions take place when an LGBTQ person is assumed to be heterosexual, or when they are encouraged to act in gender-conforming ways. I know that I’ve been told that I shouldn’t be so flamboyant...

Flamboyancy isn't genetic. It is a behavioral mechanism and it is affected action that is learned. And it is annoying ("Oh stop! Look at meee dearie...."). So is Valley Girl speak.

...As a young adult, when someone asked me “if I had a girlfriend” or “a wife or kids”, they were essentially telling me that they expected me to be heterosexual.

Newsflash: "They" ask heterosexuals these questions too even if they don't already have kids or a wife. It is "SOCIETAL NORMATIVE". It brings stability and produces the next generation of the species.

...Heterosexuals don’t realize that it is common for them to assume someone is straight, unless proven otherwise.

He got his panties in a wad earlier in this article when his peers correctly identifying him as homosexualist even when he was closeted. Now it is "offensive" to perceive him to be heterosexual. Can't satisfy the eternally offended class...

88 posted on 02/24/2014 8:22:29 AM PST by a fool in paradise ("Health care is too important to be left to the government.")
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while bisexual people have reported that they are often stereotyped as being “confused” (Nadal, Issa, et al., 2011)

Homosexuals themselves say that "bisexuals" are "confused" or "afraid to come out of the closet". As posted by someone else, why is questioning/curious always "assured" to be homo and never the mistake made by a heterosexual? De Blascio's wife is an "ex-gay". The pink journalists are silent. However, they said Anne Heche was "crazy" for leaving Ellen DeGeneres for a man and marriage.

89 posted on 02/24/2014 8:24:21 AM PST by a fool in paradise ("Health care is too important to be left to the government.")
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In everyday life, a common occurrence is when people assume that LGBTQ people would be child molesters and are wary about LGBTQ teachers or babysitters.

If it protects one child from a lifetime of psychological problems and chemical addictions...

90 posted on 02/24/2014 8:27:12 AM PST by a fool in paradise ("Health care is too important to be left to the government.")
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Anytime that any straight man assumes that I would hit on them, not only are they mistakenly flattering themselves

Repeating the lie that homosexuals NEVER hit on a straight man. Their gaydar is never wrong. And lesbians never stalk drunken sorority or roller derby girls to initiate them into lesbianism....

91 posted on 02/24/2014 8:27:57 AM PST by a fool in paradise ("Health care is too important to be left to the government.")
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To: Impala64ssa

There’s nothing “gay” about engaging in, celebrating, encouraging and legitimizing sodomy. Homosexuality is unnatural, immoral, repugnant, destructive and a sin against God.


92 posted on 02/24/2014 8:28:53 AM PST by TADSLOS (The Event Horizon has come and gone. Buckle up and hang on.)
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To: Impala64ssa
>>Microaggression, the new PC word of the day. Control the dictionary and you control the world.

So what can you do? Well, first of all, let’s get everyone to stop saying things like “That’s so gay!” or “That’s so queer!” If something is weird, say it’s “weird”!

Queer used to mean a special kind of weird, until faggots took it for their own (gay meant happy in a less perverted America). If you call them weird or abberant, you are a H8TR!!!

- questionable, suspicious

- differing in some odd way from what is usual or normal

- eccentric, unconventional (2) : mildly insane : touched

- absorbed or interested to an extreme or unreasonable degree : obsessed

- not quite well

(from merriam-webster)


93 posted on 02/24/2014 8:31:44 AM PST by a fool in paradise ("Health care is too important to be left to the government.")
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One of the reasons why it was important for me to study microaggressions against lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer and questioning (LGBTQ) people was because I knew that this type of discrimination existed and because I hypothesized that they had a significant impact on the lives of LGBTQ people, particularly on their mental health and identity development. I collaborated with two fellow psychologist colleagues, Dr. David Rivera and Dr. Melissa Corpus, and we theorized the various types of microaggressions that affect LGBTQ people (see Nadal et al., 2010). For the past several years, my research team and I interviewed all kinds of LGBTQ people and they all reported that microaggressions are very common in their lives.

It's been said time and time again that people go into psychology to figure out what is wrong with themselves. Homosexuals are drama queens ("OMG, LOOK AT ME!!THAT'S SOOOO TRUEEEE"). Gay "psychologists" were also key at changing how "science" looked at homosexual desires. Infiltrate the field and define the "science". Same with Log Cabin et al "Republicans".

94 posted on 02/24/2014 8:35:04 AM PST by a fool in paradise ("Health care is too important to be left to the government.")
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To: Impala64ssa
I'll show you microaggression...!


95 posted on 02/24/2014 8:38:08 AM PST by Fightin Whitey
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To: Impala64ssa

96 posted on 02/24/2014 8:45:13 AM PST by Impala64ssa (You call me an islamophobe like it's a bad thing.)
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To: Impala64ssa

Is it still OK to say a dude is so gay if he’s actually heterosexual but acts flamboyant?


97 posted on 02/24/2014 8:49:42 AM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (Colorado: the Maryland of the Mountain West)
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To: Impala64ssa

Is it still OK to say “That’s so gay!” to a dude if he’s into interior decorating or some other profession heavily populated by homosexuals?


98 posted on 02/24/2014 8:51:42 AM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (Colorado: the Maryland of the Mountain West)
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To: Impala64ssa

I turned on the TV the other night, and saw that the Wizard of Oz was on. Being that it starred Judy Garland, I couldn’t help myself. Before I knew it, I yelled, “That’s so gay!”

Please forgive my microaggression.


99 posted on 02/24/2014 8:52:59 AM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (Colorado: the Maryland of the Mountain West)
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To: Impala64ssa
Microaggression, the new PC word of the day.

Thank you, the idiot purveyors of fashionable European philosophy, where it's now impossible to tout something you like as awesome, without "the Other" taking offense because you have excluded them. Don't grow a stache for Movember, because you'll microaggress against women, minorities, and transgendered who can't grow facial hair as well as you. If you're a white pop singer, don't wear a kimono; that's racist. Don't assume men marrying women are the norm, because "heteronormativity" will exclude people in non-traditional arrangements. And so forth.

I could puke, but I wouldn't want to offend those with stronger stomachs for fashionable bafflegab.

100 posted on 02/24/2014 9:45:08 AM PST by RansomOttawa (tm)
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