Your post, inarticulately though it may have been, brings up the greatest issue of overturning DOMA: family law.
Throughout American history, the state has continually claimed an increasingly powerful role in the lives of everyday citizens’ families, beginning with compulsory state education. The answer is not to enforce MORE laws ensuring MORE state control of what we hold dear, but FEWER laws.
If you are correct that the problem exists in a few states, then why not end the “marriage” business by the government? The problems will only exist in those few states. End the state’s role in the “education” (perversion) of children, and you will put an end to 99% of the absolute crap we face.
Those who live unholy and impure lives will live with the consequences of their actions. Those who live rightly will do better. While I agree holiness is better than sin, that is clearly not the State’s proper role.
So I agree with you. It is a minority that want to pervert children and society. Let that minority sit in their own little communities and get the state out of the business of forcing it on everyone else: get the government OUT of our families and the Holy Mysteries/Sacraments of our churches. Get the government OUT of education.
Just keep it the way it is, marriage is bewteen one man and one woman though common sense doesn;t seem to be much around lately and that;s why we have idiots, perverts and nutjobs wanting all sorts of marriage regardless of how it affects the kids.
Also the Govt out of it slogan.
There are blood test, divorce, marriage certificate, who get the kids.
Keep mariage as it is, my wife and I got maried , not in a religious setting not off a Rev because of religion differences.
Yes the Govt married us.