That is a misleading statistic unless you know the reasons why. Regardless of changing times, it is still the case that more men cheat (or get caught at it) than women; therefore more women file for divorce. Judges are often more lenient with men who start "dating" and having women stay over in front of the children while they are only separated and not divorced; but will punish a woman for having a new man before the divorce is final. Times are changing, but many people still cling to double standards. If those people are lawyers, judges, pastors or in-laws, it's usuall the man whom they indulge with getting away with cheating.
The numbers on infidelity are close enough to even.
57% of men who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship theyve had.
54% of women who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship theyve had
22% of married men ADMIT to having an extra marital affair.
14% of women ADMIT to having an extra marital affair.
Men get the rap of being a louse (which they are)
Women rationalize it as "he drove me to it".
Women file for divorce almost 70% of the time.
OF THESE...89% are women who have a Bachelors degree or higher.
When it comes to non marriage relationships, the numbers are virtually even, of who breaks it off.
As far as physical or emotional abuse...
1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have been the victims of physical abuse by a partner.