My husband, SSgt. Donald C. May, Jr., was killed in action in Iraq March 25, 2003. We have three beautiful children. http://www.fallenheroesmemorial.com/oif/profiles/maydonaldc.html "Lo, I have stood my watch this day, I have kept our enemy at bay, God and country I serve, so I swore for peace today evermore. A new watch I proudly stand, so glorious and bold as God took my hand, with shield and armor I now bear a sword, my Comrades and I stand tall with the Lord. My eyes are fixed, my path is sure, my heart and mind so blessed and pure. As my God now dwells with me, my spirit with you will always be." Don, at age five.... >< Jack in DC _____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ "i carry your heart with me by e.e. cummings ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ i carry your heart with me (i carry it in my heart) i am never without it (anywhere i go you go, my dear; and whatever is done by only me is your doing, my darling) i fear no fate (for you are my fate,my sweet) i want no world (for beautiful you are my world,my true) and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant and whatever a sun will always sing is you here is the deepest secret nobody knows (here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide) and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart i carry your heart(i carry it in my heart) Don, I will love you longer than forever."