So is anybody who disagrees with you full of hate?
Nope. In fact, I've changed my mind on a few topics based on reasonable discussions here.
But your insistence that everything non-Catholics say is wrong, based on their non-membership in your church, precludes any reasonable discussion and comes across very aggressive and hateful.
Don't forget--this medium does not allow for non-verbal communication cues. The only thing people have are the words you post on the screen. Tone, smiles, attitude you may have while posting does not come across to the reader.
The words you choose are why people characterize you as full of hate. The phrases, terseness, and unwillingness to discuss are big parts of that.