Posted on 11/09/2019 6:38:30 PM PST by SeekAndFind
In a recent interview, newly ex-mega-church pastor Joshua Harris and author of the 1990s best-seller I Kissed Dating Goodbye remarked that the support President Trump has received from the evangelical community has been “incredibly damaging to the gospel and to the church.” Id wager Harris is projecting something fierce.
In August, Harris announced that he and his wife Shannon were divorcing, that he no longer considers himself a Christian, and that he regrets standing against marriage equality. Just in case the point was lost on any of us, he followed up his announcement by posting a picture of himself eating a rainbow donut at the Vancouver Pride parade.
Its no coincidence that Harris reversed himself on biblical teachings on sex and marriage while abandoning the core tenets of the faith. I suppose Harris is just following the crowd, as entire mainline denominations are embracing the zeitgeist.
The denial of sexual and marital norms by believers is often adjacent to a rejection of the core tenets of the faith. That’s because to arrive at these inclusive and affirming positions on marriage, Christians must exalt intoxicants such as emotion over uncompromising scripture, tradition, and natural law. Once you shift the authority from sola scriptura to sola feels, its only a matter of time before every other orthodox teaching finds itself on the woke chopping block.
As a pastor’s wife and a childrens rights activist, I have a great deal of patience for nonbelievers and my LGBT friends who have questions about my support for traditional marriage. I have clocked numerous hours conversing at the coffee shop in an effort to help them understand how I can love them wholeheartedly and reject gay marriage. If this is your first time to the childs rights party, let me throw you a bone its because the scriptural and historical purpose of marriage is child-centric, and gay kids need their moms and dads, too.
But Christian leaders who get sex and marriage wrong? Get off my lawn. Whether approaching the issue from a natural law perspective where male and female complementarity features prominently, or considering the most widely ratified treaty in human history outlines a child’s right to be known and loved by their mother and father, or through the lens of scripture where God joins together man and woman in life-long union because he is seeking godly offspring (Malachi 2), Christian leaders have no excuse for getting marriage wrong.
Zip. Zero. Nada. Their more-tolerant-than-Jesus definition of marriage (Mark 10:6-9) is, to use Harris own words, incredibly damaging not only to the church, but to the most vulnerable as well.
The reality is that Christians cannot get gay marriage wrong unless they first get the gospel wrong. Progressive Christians are under the wrong impression that ours is a gospel of affirmation: the idea that God affirms everything we think and say and do and want. This misconceived notion of the gospel believes that for God to genuinely love us, he has to love everything about us.
In this self-esteem-driven, everyone-gets-a-prize culture, a God who sometimes disapproves of our thoughts and behavior (*cough* Psalm 19:14) appears to be quite a bigot. In the Born This Way version of the Gaga gospel, Matthew 5:29 would read, If your right eye causes you to stumble, by all means, redefine the word stumble because, well, I wouldnt want you to lose an eye now, would I?
An honest reading of scripture reveals that ours is not a gospel of affirmation. Leave aside the 613 laws of the Old Testament in which God is rigidly un-affirming as he imposes devastating consequences on his people when they misuse their words, money, bodies, land, and worship. The New Testament and the gospels are also brimming with commands to put off behaviors that displease God and put on an entirely new nature.
We have a God who loves us enough to accept us as we are. That same God loves us enough not to leave us as he found us. Indeed, our gospel is not one of affirmation; its a gospel of transformation.
That transformation begins when, judicially, Christ substitutes himself for us in Gods cosmic ledger. His atoning sacrifice kicks off the process of us mortals being transformed into the likeness of Gods own Son. Sometimes thats an about-face, in which we are instantly freed from our former temptations. More often, God slowly pries our fingers, one by one, off our particular brand of besetting sin.
Whether in an instant or over a lifetime of refinement, scripture makes clear that transformation is part and parcel of a genuine encounter with Jesus; Such were some of you (1 Cor. 6:11). In fact, the reality of incremental sanctification is so evident throughout the New Testament that a Christian must ask himself, If Im not being transformed, have I actually met the real Christ?
Lest you misunderstand, when I speak of transformation in this context, Im not referring to praying the gay away. The goal of Christianity is not heterosexuality, its holiness. If my Freedom March brothers and sisters have taught me anything, its that many who experience same-sex attraction can out-holy me all day long.
I dont know enough about Harris to guess what kind of teaching he received on Jesus or the gospel. I do know that Harris parents must have done something right, because his two brothers, Brett and Alex, were able to distill the essence of Christian life in the title of their book, Do Hard Things.
When it comes to marriage, doing hard things means each parent must overcome his or her own baggage. And lets be honest, every person has baggage, married or not. Whether that means addressing mental health issues, refining communication skills, fleeing sexual temptation, or finding your way out of a crisis of faith, adults need to do the hard thing so children dont have to deal with the long-term harms that accompany family breakup.
Barring actual abuse, when adults refuse to do the hard thing and instead choose to abandon the marriage, what theyre really saying is, This cross is too heavy for me. Here kids, you take it instead. If you want to talk about something thats incredibly damaging to a childs understanding of the God who says he is the bridegroom and the church is his bride, getting marriage wrong in your personal life or in church teaching is at the top of that list.
I often wonder about Christian leaders who compromise on marriage, the ones who fly the rainbow banners outside their church doors. I wonder what theyll say to that teen boy with two moms who approaches his inclusive pastor and asks her, The first command with a promise tells me I should honor my mother and father, but you officiated the wedding that made it impossible for me to obey that command. Will she tell that boy suffering from father hunger, so common among kids with single and double moms, that his suffering is the required sacrifice on the altar of this newfound adult civil right?
Heres the truth: Every single command in Scripture is costly. More specifically, Gods commands cost adults something they desire. Maybe even something they believe they need. Maybe even something that 2019 America has decided is a right. But regardless of the cost to adults, Gods statutes always lead to health and wholeness, especially for the most vulnerable, chief among which are children.
There are many areas in this Christian life where honest believers can disagree. Sex and marriage is not one of them. No amount of textual contortions can land you in a place where God affirms same-sex marriage because in scripture (and law), marriage is connected to parenting. Redefining marriage, in a Christian or cultural context, redefines parenthood in a way that makes mothers or fathers optional in the life of a child. Thats a problem because Christians are repeatedly commanded to protect the fatherless, not create them.
Thats why biblical prescriptions on sex and marriage result in safeguarding the rights of children. Adults directing their sexual appetites into lifelong heterosexual union sets children up for success. When we fully understand the transformative nature of the gospel, adults have the power to conform their lives to Gods good design, and children are the primary beneficiaries.
When Harris best-seller I Kissed Dating Goodbye was flying off the shelves in 1997, I was clawing my way out of the cultural morass that resulted from the sexual revolution. The principle of chastity Harris now decries as an oppressive tool of an out-of-touch God is the very precept that has spared my four kids the fragmentation that both my husband and I experienced as children.
Our gendered, totally-imperfect-but-improving-by-Gods-grace marriage is not only their best chance at avoiding a host of social ills, it also provides our children a picture of the true gospel the gospel in which the bridegroom does the hard thing by devoting himself to his bride, the church, even to the point of death (Eph. 5:32). It seems to me that if Christians are serious about avoiding errors that are incredibly damaging to the gospel and the church, we will be careful to get sex and marriage exactly right.
Hebrews 6 and Jude.
Sure, and it would've been all kinds of good for the gospel and church if the evangelical community had supported Hillary, right?
If that's not filing for divorce from conventional Christianity, nothing is.
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The reality is that Christians cannot get gay marriage wrong unless they first get the gospel wrong.
My husband and I were just talking about this yesterday! If someone/anyone can just white-out verses or rationalize parts in the Bible that make them uncomfortable or with which they disagree, then how can they turn around and call upon the authority of the Sacred Scriptures for anything? When the Bible becomes nothing more than a historical document instead of the very revelation of the Holy Spirit to mankind, then we can never know with any certainty what God wants us to know. The Gospel is no longer the "good news", it's the "well that's nice to know news".
Josh Harris crossed his mentor CJ Mahoneey at covenant life church in maryland.
This looks like payback karma.
Josh is now one very hurt puppy.
I hate admitting this but, what comes to mind with people like this is the Old Testament. My heart yearns for fire from heaven or Gods judgement for fall on these people in a horrific way. Then I have to ask God to forgive me and try to pray for those blinded by Satan.
Right is right even if everyone is against it . Wrong is wrong even if everyone is for it . William Penn This inclusive of all lifestyles is a true abomination of Gods word , it is that plain and simple . Satan will take every avenue to lead you to a chaotic and dark existence ...this faggot and dyke along with the gender identity bullshit is just another path .
"Let God be true and every man a liar."
True news for Pete Buttigieg.
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