“Do I sound judgmental?”
Yes. As you should. The Bible is a guide book on judging. Christians who aren’t judgmental need to question their salvation.
I’ve tried doing that here and you see the bean pile I’ve come up against (as expected).
Folks need to understand that most churches have been infiltrated by the devil in these last days. I’ve had to leave several myself after it became obvious that the message wasn’t just a watered-down gospel, but literally another gospel.
Paul exhorts us to “work out our own salvation” in Philippians 2:12 and John in 1 John 4:1 tells us to “test the spirits”.