Its not supposed to be about pleasing those around me, but pleasing God.
One day I noticed myself singing louder and not caring what others think. There are plenty of people off key and worse, but its about God, not others, or me.
He married a woman named Harmony.
I love that !
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I am afraid I cannot agree with your juxtaposition:
As a trained chorister and an ordained minister, I entirely agree that worshipful singing is about the Lord.
As a student of music history, I do not consider Charles Ives a good example of that principle: I consider him a lover of worldly chaos, not godly order - like so many that came out of the anti-Christian late Nineteenth Century.