I would hope so.
Do you have any examples of non neighborly love towards non Catholics?
I would also hope that Catholics present the Truth of Jesus informatively although that may be contrary to the beliefs of non Catholics.
I consider this a forum to present our Catholics beliefs truthfully to everyone with the intention of helping all attain salvation with God.
Sometimes, the Truth is blunt and there is evidence of bluntness in the Truth in the words of Jesus.
I am sure that we could be more effective in our presentation, but I do not see any bad intent.
Sometimes i do not see an intelligent discussion of issues or difference, just a response based on personal opinion or feelings.
You are very kind to yourself.