There are good Catholic people that marry cruel monsters that try to destroy them Surely this is not a marriage. Why some lucky people get to have a long marriage and children and others get tortured and are awarded misery is beyond me.
Yes, God “hates” divorce. But in some cases divorce is a blessing. Good humans know how to love and to be sentenced to live alone without love because a monstrous spouse still breathes air is not of God but is of the devil.
If God hates divorce, how can divorce be a blessing?