You have convinced yourself that some man made church of what's happening now is the way to go rather than the church that Jesus Himself founded....good luck with that asinine theory but I will stick with Jesus and His way....
Nope! The “way to go” is through faith in Jesus Christ who is THE way the truth and the life. If you really were sticking with Jesus and his way you would never have just gotten done claiming people are saved by their own works of righteousness.
My faith is in Christ not any church. In fact...all those who follow him are his church - his called out ones. Forget about trusting others to save you - including yourself - and trust in what Jesus has done for you. Not by works of righteousness which we have done but according to his mercy he saved us.
That is 'mind reading', and an inaccurate, poor example in end result ---but still example of what is strongly advised against engaging in, on this forum.
The person you have been conversing with has many times laid out the reasons for why she believes as she does.
You do not get to come along and redefine her own reasons for her.