There’s some blame shifting right there.
It’s all the women’s fault????
If men are castigated, then who let them be?
Is there not a man around who can say “No” to that, or are they just going to go around blaming others for letting it happen to themselves?
I see the problem right there.
Did I say it’s all the women’s fault? No, but I said they have the lion’s share of the fault. I also said that women (maybe like you) will go after people who start telling it like it is.
How many men scream with vitriol when told they should learn better how to love their wives? They’ll mostly agree. But if you told a crowd of women they need to learn to honor, obey and be subject to their husband in everything, you’re in danger of being run out of town on a rail or crucified.