Hint: You need to change churches. Sounds like you’re at one of those Unitarian churches the way you describe it. Real men take the lead role and don’t need to be told what needs to be done. Metrosexual is so passe. Their days are numbered. The term was only invented to ease the world into open homosexuality.
Yeah in my church both participate.
And at the same time
I think many dont want the committment any of those services expect.