Saying "this tactic is not a good idea," or "deal with this situation this way" is one thing, saying "you have to 'marry' two dudes" is completely different. The latter is open heresy, which means full-scale schism, which means the real church splitting off and electing a new Pope.
The poster said he was a deacon. I presume that is a local church position and not a corporate RCC one. I asked what HE would do if Rome overruled his local congregation’s wishes.
“Full-scale schism” is beginning to sound more than a little Baptist, which is criticized by the RCC Christian elite for that denomination’s tendency to have splits.
Real churches don't "split off", they are real churches, others split off from them.. (Ref: Protestant revolution)...