And the advice was “What is it your Son wants me to do?” Or didn’t you see that part?
In Acts we see the Holy Spirit moving and guiding the disciples. We see the Holy Spirit acting this way in a number of passages.
We have NO recorded passages of Mary acting in this way or any of the NT writers noting they discussed anything with Mary or prayed to her for direction.
My point is that we can go straight to God and ask Him what it is He wants us to do. He is far more capable of handling all of these requests than Mary.