I think what everyone misses is that an abortion is a purposeful act. It’s different from taking a pill to cause an abortion IF you are pregnant. A doctor knows a baby is in the womb and destroys it.
If we can just outlaw that, we will have done a world of good. Pregnancy is a natural result of sex. Everyone knows how to greatly lower the risk of pregnancy. There are more ways to prevent pregnancy than there are ways to prevent HIV.
How is it not purposeful? Why take the pill if your goal is not to kill the already-conceived child?
It's certainly not "different" for the child. They're dead either way.