Ok then; where DID she live?
Ephesus, for one.
Also what’s so amazing is that the writings of John doesn’t
say more than a few words about her. Their very own Bible is included in that record (lack of).
John 19:26-27 New Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition (NRSVCE)
26 When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing beside her, he said to his mother, Woman, here is your son. 27 Then he said to the disciple, Here is your mother. And from that hour the disciple took her into his own home.