I think in marriage you have to be willing to give and invest first and foremost in that relationship....(second only to the Lord). It must have the priority although that is fluid for obvious reasons. Still it’s about marrying someone who can and is able to make the same commitment you do.
There are three parties in a marriage...you...your mate...and the marriage itself. Commitment isn’t just to the individual but to the marriage itself. If you are commited to the marriage as deeply it will get you past those uncomfortable moments that are normal in relationsips....
**There are three parties in a marriage...you...your mate...and the marriage itself.**
I’ve always said that there are three people getting married, the man, the woman and most importantly, God.