no, unforgiveness is absurd. Kicking repentant people out of church activities is absurd. And very very UN JESUS like.
Take your false choices bullshit question about “standards” elsewhere, I see through them instantly and destroy them just as quick. Bet you sin 1000x a day.
You see through nothing.
A person who repeatedly sins and shows no indication of any plans to ever stop cannot be said to be repentant.
Don’t forget - Jesus Himself told the adulterous nearly-stoned woman “Go forth and sin no more”.
You seem to be describing even the words of Jesus as “false choice bullshit”.