When they are 18 years old they have a choice:
If they choose COLLEGE, they may still hang around, but they will STILL have to get a job to help out.
If they choose JOB, then they pay rent to you or hit the road (As in HIT THE ROAD, JACK!)
It's not up to God.
YOU own the house and YOU pay the bills, so YOU get to set the rules. You are the QUEEN!
Do I sound harsh, your majesty??
Where's that leader-quality in you? Get out your WHIP BATON!
Crushed by my husband, thanks for asking.