I “divorce-proof” my marriage every day. It’s not something you do once in a while, it is something you do every day. Sometimes it’s the small things like replacing his underwear for him, sometimes it means being submissive to his desires in the bedroom even if I’m not really in the mood. Whatever it is at the moment, that’s the thing to look to make sure your marriage is contented.
You might like these daily tidbits:
http://www.foryourmarriage.org/marriage-resources/tips-and-advice/daily-marriage-tip/