Playing tag with truth. If Nicolaitan means what you say, in context, make your case. Jesus used logic. God invented logic. No need to hide from the logic unless you’ve got no case.
I think the reason you chafe at Nicolaitan is becoming more and more obvious.
In Yeshua’s assembly, all are equal, he told us so, and those that wish to be MORE equal will find themselves at the bottom of the pile.
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