In separating what God has joined we have become lost in a strange world where life is both hated (via contraception and abortion) and where life has been turned into a commercial product up for sale ...I have observed before that this is a society in which a person will do absolutely anything, including kill, to avoid having a baby ... right up to the moment the same person will do anything, including kill, to have a baby.
Because it is all about
them. Once they realize the kid isn't just a new toy and the pain of raising him becomes apparent that child is in for a lot of emotional neglect.
Raising kids requires sacrifice and that isn't Mr and Mrs Instant Gratification's thing.