[defconw]

That went through my head as well. But I had dated Catholic men. Then as you get older( I was), you start to think you are not going to get married. I was OK with that. I even explored if maybe I was supposed to be in religious life.

Out of the clear blue, I met my husband and it seemed right. He was the one I was supposed to be with. He was older than me and had never married either.

I took it to the Adoration Chapel, I spoke at length to a priest I explicitly trusted. Then I took the leap of faith. Seven years and we are good. I left it up to God that I was reading the situation the right way. I know many people get married for all kinds of reasons. I was older so I thought about it maybe more than young people do.

[yldstrk]

same.

I was older, I though God told me marry this man

Now looking back maybe I was deluded....I don’t know