Posted on 07/24/2014 6:04:58 AM PDT by Gamecock
For over 10 years I lived the homosexual lifestyle, and for 34 years I have not. And there are very good reasons for that difference. To those who suggest that I never was homosexual, my response is, "Does sleeping with over 1,000 men count?"
Oh yes. I was homosexual, though like most, I never wanted to have such attractions. I saw the narcissism and arrested emotional development all around me, and in me. Guys flitting around like Peter Pan were sometimes cute and funny, and certainly nonthreatening, but I wanted to be a grown up. I wanted to be a man. I wanted to be strong, solid, stable and reliable.
I recognized the obsession with youth and beauty that drove their fantasies and lusts and knew that once I entered my thirties, the thrill of being wanted would quickly come to an end. I cringed at the epidemic of perverse sexual behaviors commonly practiced and celebrated by gay culture and wanted nothing to do with them.
Such behaviors were so obviously perverse. Simple anatomical design declared it. A man was designed to interact sexually with a woman. That's the design. And when sex is practiced outside of that design, physical damage and a legion of diseases are unleashed—not to mention the judgments of the Lord described in Romans 1:24-32: "God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual immorality ... God gave them over to shameful lusts ... receiving into themselves the due penalty for their perversion ... God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do what ought not to be done," and in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10: "the sexually immoral ... those who practice homosexuality ... will not inherit the Kingdom of God."
God created a man and a woman to become one flesh in a lifelong covenant of love (i.e., "marriage"), and to be fruitful and multiply when possible. God invented marriage. He designed it as a prefigurement of the marriage between Jesus and His Bride, the Church (Ephesians 5:31-32), and laid out its parameters from the dawn of time. Even cultures that do not know Him have followed that design from the beginning. There is no ambiguity about His design nor His description of it in the Scriptures. Indeed, every departure from that model is universally condemned and forbidden by Him, for what it does to our bodies, our souls and to the image of God that is stamped into the one flesh, marital union of male and female.
Having same-sex desires is a great trial—there is no doubt about it. The feelings have as great an intensity as those found in the alcoholic for alcohol, the drug addict for drugs, the smoker for nicotine. And in all such cases, it seems unfair to the natural mind that God would allow us to have such intense desires yet not allow us to act on them.
The idea floated by so-called "gay theology" that God created people to be homosexual (i.e., that He is the cause for such desires) is as ridiculous for the homosexual as it is for the drug addict. The Scriptures are clear about what God designed and what He desires. They are also clear that because of the sinful actions of our forebears, we are born with a sin nature that pulls us strongly in various destructive directions. Homosexual desire, born from a complicated convergence of our fallen nature, idolatry, rebellion, temperament, environment, experiences and developmental factors is just one more way that happens.
It does no good to pretend that it is good and natural and holy. That's called denial. Statistics overflow with evidence that homosexual sex causes damage to body, soul and spirit. It actually damages the body of the partner. It tears at the body in ways that result in homosexual sex being the number one risk factor for contracting AIDS in this country. In fact, an entire cottage industry of scientific study and medical care has arisen from the proliferation of gay sex in our modern culture.
Homosexual behavior also tears at the soul, causing much higher rates for substance abuse, suicide, depression, domestic violence, early death—even in the most gay-friendly regions of the globe. Why? Because active homosexuals are trying to find something through gay relationships that can never be found there. The happiness that they seek can only be found in submitting their sexuality to the Lordship of Christ and allowing Him to bring healing to the broken areas that have caused their homosexual desires. Yes, it's a slow and sometimes arduous path to take, just as it is for the addict, but the only one that leads to joy, peace and eternal life with God.
All that to say—the term "gay marriage" is an oxymoron. It is an invention of broken man in defiance against the expressed desire and design of God for mankind. It is the fallen creature trying to tell the omniscient Creator how things should be. Even the misnamed "gay Christian"—those who practice homosexuality without repentance and therefore are not Christian—are examples of man praising God with his lips while his heart is far from Him (Matt. 15:7-9)—calling Him Lord, Lord, while refusing to do what He says (Matt. 7:21-23; Luke 6:46). To invent a form of marriage that defies the natural and spiritual order is insanity and can only lead to the destruction of those involved, and according to Scripture, even the society that allows it to happen (Gen. 19:1-29; Jude 5-7; Rom. 1:32).
We all know that marriage is in a bad state these days. Our population has laid the groundwork for faux marriages by practicing adultery and in other ways rebelling against the meaning and purpose of sex and marriage. But inventing and sanctioning homosexual marriages is a logarithmic jump in rebellion and consequent disaster.
In a high percentage of marriages these days, the children will spend a part of their childhood without their original mother or father, and that is very sad and can be very harmful for them. But in so-called "gay marriages" you are guaranteeing that the children will grow up without a mother or father in the home. You are guaranteeing it! You are state-sanctioning that deprivation and becoming a co-conspirator in the consequent damage to their well-being.
And yet the gay-supporting media presses on with its relentless drumbeat, promoting homosexual behavior, relationships and so-called marriage just as ferociously as it promotes the destruction of children in their mother's wombs.
A newly released two-hour documentary called Such Were Some of YouSuch Were Some of You attempts to counter that agenda with truth. In it, 29 former homosexuals expose the facts about homosexuality, its causes and how Jesus has set them free from it.
The film opens with people on the street giving their opinion about claims that are made by activist homosexuals in the press, followed by expert teaching on those same questions by Christian leaders like Dr. Michael Brown and Dr. Neil T. Anderson, as well as theological correctives from the worlds top scholar on the biblical texts concerning sexual behavior, Dr. Robert Gagnon.
But what makes this film so powerful are the moving stories of being saved, set free, healed and delivered from the brokenness of homosexuality by those who have gone through that great trial. With love and sensitivity for friends still trapped in the gay lifestyle, they also describe the process by which God has brought healing to the brokenness that created their same-sex desires in the first place.
As the Scriptures promise in Revelation 12, they have overcome by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony. God also says in Rev 21:6-7: "I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To him who is thirsty I will give to drink without cost from the spring of the water of life. He who overcomes will inherit all this, and I will be his God and he will be my son."
And to the reader, hear the word of God found in 1 Corinthians 6:11 (speaking of practicing homosexuals, among others): "And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God."
many women on the left have been with just as many
and yes, they are indeed troubled.
this is why the left seems so foreign. so bent.
because they are
This is a good article worth pinging out.
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Excellent article, wagglebee. Thanks.
It adds up because the distribution curve is different for men and for women. There are fewer women who will have sex with more than one man, so their average is lower. But of the women who will have sex with more than one man, they either have lefty delusions and see sex as a form of rebellion, or are abused, exploited and in that way prostituted. So only a relatively few women give out to multiple partners.
Men have less pressure and more indifference to whether they have uncommitted sex because they don't get pregnant and also because fewer men than women are religious. For men, it's more a matter of their opportunities among the women they associate with, unless they are able or willing to pay for it.
A small % of women who have sex with many more men than the average woman?
FReegards
"The average heterosexual man has nine sex partners in a lifetime."
When that average gets above three you know the country is headed for the ditch. When it gets above six, you know the country is well stuck fast in the ditch.
Men who can't control their little head don't deserve women who can't keep their legs together and women know it. So, men get more active, women get more active, the country goes to crap.
Then you have unwed mothers and irresponsible fathers, "Mothers" using abortifacient contraceptives and may have had six kids they never knew were created, and "fathers" who don't even really have any idea how many children they've fathered.
People who "settle down" and get married to raise the few children of theirs they're aware of complain how tough it is to raise children when so many parents let their kids group up to be irresponsible scum.
Western civilization is dying from an overdose of Free Love and still ties off and loves the needle.
JMHO
They are constantly trying to square the circle - to prove to themselves and to others that what they are doing is normal, natural, right, fulfilling, etc. when common sense would tell anyone that it is none of those things. And the older they get the worse it gets as the bloom falls off the rose with advancing age.
Low single digits here. Absolutely terrified of “strange”.
2000 Wow, I guess that explains why some parks are loaded with perverts.
No names needed, no time for it, just a mutual need to get off and they go their own way. They really do roll the dice
the dice are loaded and they ‘win’ every time
Using George Michael as a reference I think its more like 3 minutes than 3 dates.
Wow! I guess the 3 date rule does not apply in gay “relationships.”
Thanks I forwarded it.
“Too bad there isn’t something like Homosexuals Anonymous.”
If there is, google has removed HA’s website from its search results, and apple has removed any of HA’s apps from the app store.
apple already removed an app that helps homosexuals overcome their homosexuality.
It made apple the book burner of the 21st century.
The average heterosexual man has nine sex partners in a lifetime. The average woman has four.
On the flip side, I would expect men to exaggerate their conquests.
I’ve always wondered about that.
Someone is lying. Suspect men exaggerate and women underreport.
Men think nine is about right to be normal and women think four is normal. What's that say about chastity prior to marriage, faithfulness suring marriage, the accetence of divorce, etc.
Accurate or not, it still says where society is and is headed.JMHO
Prostitutes could probably rival that number.
That kind of sexual promiscuity is absolutely a red flag that something is wrong with a person’s soul.
And while the lifestyle is reprehensible and not to be condoned in any way shape or form, Christians have not been on the ball with their attitude about those trapped in it.
They are people that Jesus died for, just as anyone else is and need His redemption.
Much as I hate cliches, it gets to loving the sinner and hating the sin.
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