““I didn’t want to be gay, and I didn’t want to go to hell.””
Being gay doesn’t condemn you to hell. Being an unrepentant sinner, certainly can. What kind of love is it, that supports someone into hell? Well, that’s not love at all.
It’s all a jumbled mess! I recently recalled words of The Lord from the Revelation: “Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline”. Wow! We’ve really missed true love in our spoiled era.
The poor guy “didn’t want to be gay and didn’t want to go to hell”. Understandable. Still, if one is snagged by God’s word on a subject (really convicted by the Holy Spirit), how will a “There, there, we love you and accept you regardless of what that mean old Bible says” really set your troubled mind at ease? It won’t.
One has to be set free through Christ, and He will rebuke and discipline you regarding His ways.