I hear you, on the occasion we run late and don’t make the 8:30 traditional service we have to attend the 10:50 rock and roll show, casual dress is optional (by that I mean spandex, flip-flops, and pajamas can be seen all in the name of acceptance). I come away all depressed.
The rock music always puts me off but the casual dress thing doesn’t bother me as much because I’d rather see that than empty seats. Although, smelling bad is an entirely different thing.