I agree with you. I’ve always said that if these guys would spend half their effort and attention (now used ogling women they could never get the attention of in real life) on a real woman, they’d find quite a bit of satisfaction.
They forget that they helped make women the way they are now. There was a time when nice women, who didn't ‘put out’, would lose boyfriends because they'd drop her to find the loose woman. Eventually the young women learned there was only one way to ‘keep’ him - and now the guys wonder why they are the way they are.
And - as you say - men spend time ogling the ‘enhanced, picture perfect’ women and then when young women copy that they are called cheap and skanks. Women basically like to dress to please men - they're just doing what the men seem to want.
Thankfully I grew up in a better, nicer time.