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Permissive Parenting Contributed to killing of Jesse Dirkhising (homosexual violence alert)
C&F Report ^ | September 26, 2002 | Alyson Smith

Posted on 09/30/2002 3:27:34 PM PDT by Saundra Duffy

Permissive Parenting Contributed to Killing of Jesse Dirkhising - Parents didn’t mind him spending time with homosexual men - By Allyson Smith

Jesse Dirkhising 7th grade yearbook photo Lincoln Middle School Second of two parts

The following is the second of a two-part article commemorating the third anniversary of the sadistic rape-killing of Jesse Dirkhising, a 13-year-old boy from Prairie Grove, Arkansas, on September 26, 1999. Young Jesse was found near death at the apartment of 33-year-old family friend and hairdresser Davis Carpenter, after a night of grotesque sodomitic abuse at the hands of Carpenter’s 22-year-old homosexual lover, Joshua Brown. (Carpenter used notes to guide Brown in the sadistic rituals.) For the sake of decency, many of the gruesome details surrounding the killing of Jesse had to be edited out of this and last week’s article. (A fuller, more graphic, version of this piece is available on WorldNetDaily.com, published September 23, 2002.) The Web site of Americans for Truth also contains more information on the Dirkhising case.

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Joshua Brown was tried and convicted on charges of capital murder and rape of 13-year-old Jesse Dirkhising in March 2001 and sentenced to life in prison without parole.

During the trial, prosecutors called nearly 25 witnesses and presented more than 100 items of evidence, including nylon rope, petroleum jelly jars, a douche bottle, crumpled duct tape, feces- and vomit-covered shirts and underwear, prescription pill bottles, and photos of items that were used to sodomize the child, according to news reports.

Police also confiscated several notes that Davis Carpenter, Brown’s accomplice and older homosexual lover, wrote describing how to sedate and sodomize children (both Jesse and a neighborhood girl).

One three-page note, addressed to "Baby," Carpenter’s pet name for Brown, contained a graphic sexual assault fantasy about a little neighbor girl: "I saw your 10-year-old blonde whore this morning. ... Her bus comes by at 7:20 or 7:30."

"Keep an eye on her to catch the first opportunity to talk to her — In the back window & whammo! Oh yeah!"

Benton County Circuit Court Judge David Clinger, who presided over Brown’s trial, called the written accounts of bondage, drugging, gagging and blindfolding "a blueprint for child rape."

JESSE’S POLITICALLY CORRECT PARENTS During cross examination at the trial, evidence came to light that Jesse’s parents had permissive attitudes toward homosexuality and drug use — and the fact that Jesse was hanging out with older homosexual lovers.

"[Jesse’s mother] Tina Yates, to our shock and dismay, testified on cross-examination that she was well aware that Carpenter and Brown were homosexuals and had no issue with them or homosexuality in general," said Robert C. Balfe, the lead prosecuting attorney for Benton County, Arkansas, in a post-conviction interview with C&F Report.

"If Jesse wanted to be a homosexual, that was fine with her. In fact, a homosexual minister had married her and Jesse’s stepfather, Miles Yates. Tina considered Carpenter and Brown ‘family’ and they all spent considerable time together at each other’s residences."

Miles Yates reiterated his wife’s testimony that he was aware that Carpenter and Brown were homosexuals and drug users but said those facts didn’t bother him "so long as it was not around the family," and stated that he was not averse to using drugs "at home with me or someone you’re comfortable with."

He also testified that he had met Carpenter about seven years prior to his stepson’s death via his own friendship with a homosexual lover of Carpenter’s and that he would allow only "a decent person — an upstanding citizen" to watch Jesse or his siblings overnight.

"This testimony was so out-of-step with any reasonable person’s views on family that it alienated [Tina], and by default, Jesse, from the jury," Balfe said.

A 14-year-old female friend of Jesse’s also testified that Jesse had been seen the week prior to his death being injected with methamphetamine by a 43-year-old female neighbor of Brown’s and Carpenter’s, unsupervised by either of the men.

GRANDMOTHER TOLD TO MIND OWN BUSINESS One family member who was not comfortable with Jesse’s friendship with the two homosexuals was his step-grandmother, Betty Yates.

In a 1999 interview with CNSNews.com, Yates said, "The parents put him in a situation he shouldn’t have been in. They knowingly let him spend weekends with the two guys knowing they were gay. Jesse was a typical 13-year-old good kid. You do not put a 13-year-old child into a situation like that. It had been going on for about two months and he had told them he did not want to go back."

Betty Yates told CNSNews.com that some months prior to Jesse’s death, Tina Yates said she was excited that the gay couple had taken an interest in her son.

"I said, ‘Do they not have kids’? And she said, ‘Well, they’re two guys, they’re gay.’ When they left, I said to my husband, ‘Do you know what they’re doing?’ But he’s real big on minding your own business. Now I’m sorry I didn’t pursue it. We shouldn’t have minded our own business that time. It was a horrible death that could have been prevented."

Balfe, the prosecutor, told C&F Report, "It was extremely important to me that the jury stay focused on the real issue of the trial, the rape and murder of Jesse, and not be distracted by any side issues, such as whether this case was the subject of a conspiracy by the national media to hide homosexual hate crimes.

"Jesse was not attacked because he was heterosexual, he was attacked because he was a child. The defendants were pedophiles and had an unnatural desire to engage in the violent rape of children," he said. "I have my personal opinions on whether homosexuality is a sexual deviance that makes other types of sexual deviance such as pedophilia more likely to occur among homosexuals, but that is separate and apart from my prosecution of this crime."

Balfe said that the defendants’ homosexual conduct was "self-evident" and added, "I didn’t stay away from the homosexual angle in this case to be politically correct."

FAMILY BREAKDOWN LED TO TROUBLES Teen pregnancy, divorce, fatherlessness and childhood abuse all played a part in the Jesse Dirkhising tragedy.

Jesse’s and Joshua Brown’s mothers were both 17 when they gave birth to their sons. "Both mothers had their children too young, and both failed to nurture and protect," said public defender Louis Lim. Carpenter’s parents were also divorced.

Brown’s mother, Judith Wasson of Memphis, Tennessee, testified that Brown’s father had abandoned the family when Joshua was two years old.

Wasson said that her son had been in and out of foster homes in California and Tennessee between the ages of 9 and 11 because of physical abuse and neglect at her own hands. She also stated that her brother, who had moved into their home as a "male figure" for the family, had physically abused Joshua and sexually abused his younger sister, Jessica.

When her son Joshua was 20, Wasson said, he met Carpenter in Memphis while on the rebound after breaking up with a girlfriend.

"I did not know Josh had any homosexual tendencies until after he was arrested," she said.

Under questioning by Detective Jarod Mason, Brown admitted that he was bisexual.

VULNERABLE BOYS: EASY ‘GAY’ PREY Defense attorney Louis Lim said that Brown was a troubled, insecure teen with drug addictions when Carpenter walked into his life in 1997.

"A successful hairstylist, Carpenter was a keynote speaker at Brown’s sister’s graduation from modeling school in Mississippi. Carpenter befriended Brown and offered him a job," reported the Arkansas Democrat-Gazette.

When Carpenter saw Brown for the first time, "he said he [Brown] was so pretty he needed someone to lift him up," Lim told jurors.

Within two months of knowing Brown, Carpenter persuaded Brown to move away from his friends and family to Florida. Davis later manipulated Josh into a homosexual relationship by stating that four characters in the Bible (David and Jonathan, and Ruth and Naomi) were homosexual.

As he did with Brown, Carpenter worked to isolate Jesse from his family, Lim said.

Co-workers from the Regis hair salon characterized Carpenter as the stronger of the two personalities in the relationship with Brown, and said he tended to be domineering, condescending and sure of himself.

They generally described Brown as more like a teenager than a mature 22-year-old. One witness noted that Brown would generally stare at the ground in front of himself rather than looking people in the eyes, a trait evident in police transcripts and trial photographs.

Carpenter wrote housekeeping instructions to Brown and, in one note, described their relationship as "a beautiful marriage"!

JESSE’S LIFE DEVALUED BY KILLERS, JURORS In closing arguments, Prosecutor Balfe said that making a late-night run for more duct tape, picking up only two sandwiches instead of three, and leaving the child unattended all proved that Carpenter and Brown weren’t concerned about Jesse’s welfare.

Balfe also described to C&F Report the difficulty of convincing the court that Jesse’s rape was non-consensual: "I repeatedly kept telling the jury that there is no way a 13-year-old boy is going to agree to being bound, gagged with dirty underwear, and raped with numerous different objects over five hours," he said.

"The defense’s response was essentially: ‘Well, I know it’s hard to understand, but you never know what these homosexuals are going to do.’" Balfe said that a similar comment was made in the jury room.

"If this was a 13-year-old girl, there would be absolutely no issue that it was not consensual. Yet since Jesse was a boy, this was somehow understandable. It must have been ‘kinky sex.’"

Balfe told C&F Report that Jesse’s disadvantaged background fueled jurors’ beliefs that the teenager had consented to the assault: "The defense certainly devalued the victim along [socio-economic] lines. If the 13-year-old had been the son of a Wal-Mart executive (Wal-Mart is headquartered here in Bentonville), then I believe we would have had a different outcome.

"That’s why pedophiles target children from disadvantaged homes. First, they’re more likely to be successful in luring these children because the parents aren’t as vigilant. Second, juries then punish the victim because the parents are unsympathetic."

JESSE LOVED BY FAMILY, CLASSMATES During the penalty phase of Brown’s trial, members of Jesse’s families made statements to the court telling how much Jesse had meant to them and arguing for the maximum punishment for Joshua Brown.

According to local news reports, Jesse’s maternal grandmother, Paula McVey, fought back tears as she told jurors how much she and her remaining grandchildren missed Jesse.

McVey testified that Jesse’s little brother and sister, Chad and Renea Kidd, had been very close to their older brother. She said that Chad, then 9 years old, frequently cried out, "I want my brother!" and that Renea, 8, had become extremely dependent upon her remaining brother and broke into tears when separated from him for any length of time.

Chad wrote a statement to the court saying that he missed drawing and playing football, baseball, soccer and basketball with Jesse.

"I’m mad," wrote Chad. "I want to hurt someone. I feel like there is a very big whole [sic] in me." Chad added that he hoped Brown and Carpenter would get the death penalty.

Tina Yates wrote that Jesse loved to read and play football for his school and that he liked camping, fishing and hunting with his siblings, and going to movies with his grandmother. She said her son’s dream was to finish school, get his mechanic’s certification and make a living repairing automobiles.

Brown’s mother, Judith Wasson, told the court tearfully, "We are profoundly sorry for the loss that the Yates family is having. I know in my heart that Joshua could not have intentionally killed anyone."

Jesse’s classmates at Lincoln Middle School placed flowers on his school bus seat and memorialized his locker after his death.

JUDGE DID NOT BUY BROWN’S EXCUSE Judge David Clinger rejected the contention that Brown tried to save Jesse by cutting away duct tape and trying to perform cardiopulmonary resuscitation. Trial testimony showed that Carpenter and Brown contemplated cleaning Jesse in the shower or dumping his body somewhere else before Carpenter called 911.

"I absolutely don’t find a single shred of evidence that Mr. Carpenter ever forced you to do anything that you didn’t want to do," Judge Clinger said.

"You and Davis Carpenter had quite a time inflicting this on this bound and helpless young man who was barely 13. Imagining Jesse’s thought process during his slow and torturous death has sent shivers up my spine," Clinger told Brown.

Despite Clinger’s contention that Joshua willingly participated in Jesse’s assault, juror Milton Davis said, "Very often, we felt we were trying the wrong man."

CARPENTER COPS PLEA Davis Carpenter’s trial, originally scheduled for May 2001, was averted after he pleaded guilty on April 18, 2001 to one count each of capital murder and rape in exchange for serving life in prison without possibility of parole.

At his sentencing, Carpenter admitted his culpability in Jesse ‘s death and apologized to Jesse’s mother and stepfather: "I’d like to say to Miles and Tina that I’m sorry Jesse’s gone. I tried to save him but couldn’t. Every day I pray for them and I will continue to pray for the rest of my life that the Lord will heal the hole in their heart."

While acknowledging that Carpenter’s crimes were terrible, Judge Clinger said he found no evidence that either Carpenter or Brown intended to kill Jesse, persuading him to accept the plea bargain.

Carpenter’s father later told The Arkansas Democrat-Gazette that his son accepted partial blame for Jesse’s murder. "He knew the boy’s family didn’t have much money and gave him a job at the salon. But he has admitted that he probably shouldn’t have ever had the boy in that apartment."

Balfe summarized the case to C&F Report as follows: "I believe that this unfortunate 13-year-old boy, raised in a home with the [types of views that Miles and Tina Yates espoused], was left to be lured by these two pedophiles who could induce him with money and drugs. I believe they wanted Jesse to become addicted to drugs to make him more likely to follow their commands."

Spokesmen for homosexual pressure groups like the Human Rights Campaign deplored Jesse’s murder, even as they said it has nothing to do with "gays."

WHAT’S NEW IN 2002? According to Northwest Arkansas News reports from this year, Brown’s case has been appealed to the Arkansas Supreme Court. However, the appeal is currently languishing due to personnel and workload issues within the Benton County Public Defender’s Office.

Two months after his murder conviction, Carpenter filed a handwritten motion to withdraw his guilty plea. On July 11, 2001, Carpenter filed another petition for post-conviction relief, claiming that his attorneys were ineffective.

On July 11 of this year, Judge Clinger refused Carpenter’s requests, saying that neither request was signed and notarized as required by law.

No local memorials have been held since Jesse’s death, according to NWAonline.net reporter Kirby Sanders, who covered the case.

A recent search on the Nexis online database of news and print articles shows a total of 669 articles about Jesse Dirkhising versus 11,948 for slain homosexual college student Matthew Shepard, using the search phrase "All News Stories."

Cards and letters may be sent to Jesse’s family at the following address:

Dirkhising/Yates Family c/o Benton County Prosecutor’s Office 100 NE "A" Street Bentonville, AR 72712

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Culture and Family Institute an affiliate of Concerned Women for America 1015 Fifteenth St. N.W., Suite 1102 Washington, D.C. 20005 Phone: (202) 289-7117 Fax: (202) 488-0806 E-mail: mail@cultureandfamily.org


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May we never forget Jesse Dirkhising so that he will not have died in vain. Poor kid. I don't know how to post a photo but he sure was a cute kid. These monsters are . . . MONSTERS!
1 posted on 09/30/2002 3:27:34 PM PDT by Saundra Duffy
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To: Saundra Duffy
More homosexual crap:

Subject: Cognitive Dissonance

Title: Bushwhacking Johnny
Source: Chronicles Magazine
Published: Sep 21, 2002
Author: B.K. Eakman

Chronicles Magazine ^ | September 2002 | B.K. Eakman

From the September 2002 issue of Chronicles :

Bushwhacking Johnny by B.K. Eakman

At dinner, ten-year-old Johnny is sullen and uncommunicative. It has been a bad day. His parents pass off his ill humor as "going through a phase." Actually, it was an easy day--taken up with "another stupid school assembly." Johnny had sat there, bored, listening to people drone on about diversity and tolerance. When a lesbian took the stage, Johnny and his soccer buddies had guffawed. Later, the school counselor cornered him at his locker: "You're a big boy now, Johnny. Your Mom and Dad are from another generation, you know, so it's not surprising they wouldn't be tolerant of gay people. You can make up your own mind. You wouldn't want someone looking at you and your friends as 'dumb soccer jocks,' would you?"

Johnny has been subjected to cognitive dissonance, a tactic often used to mold public opinion. Not only does the technique neutralize unwanted input, it's a nearly foolproof method of manipulating groups for political ends. An adult subjected to it at least has the benefit of maturity and experience. He may recognize, however belatedly, the cause of his annoyance. Johnny, however, is too young to weigh matters, so he broods. His confusion may fester for months below any conscious level of awareness.

Technically, cognitive dissonance is "a stressful mental or emotional reaction caused by trying to reconcile two opposing, inconsistent, or conflicting beliefs held simultaneously." In practice, it is a form of mental coercion. (I ought to know: I sat through enough workshops as a prospective educator and practicing teacher. We learned how to disrupt logic, how to make it difficult for the uninitiated to sustain a train of thought.)

Creating a disorienting psychological environment doesn't require an expert agitator or professional provocateur if you can get gullible third parties--teachers, factory workers, even parents--who don't realize what they're doing to do the dirty work. Educators often think that they are using scientific methodology to transmit "thinking skills" or that they are "empowering pupils to be decisionmakers." Budding journalism students may believe they are perfecting interviewing techniques. Political-science majors typically encounter it as "negotiating tactics," which is closer to the truth. But the goal of cognitive dissonance, as with all surreptitious opinion-molding, is to get the target to respond to contrived "stimuli" (especially hot-button topics or situations) with knee-jerk, emotional reactions, leaving reason behind. In so doing, the victim "internalizes," briefly or permanently, an alternate view of reality.

In today's politically correct schools, this is sold as intellectual and academic freedom. Take any controversial issue--e.g., homosexuality--and examine the method used to bushwhack ten-year-old Johnny.

As a pre-adolescent, Johnny naturally looks to his parents as the primary source of authority. But they have made it clear that teachers and other school staff are also his superiors, requiring obedience.

Enter the school counselor: In one fell swoop, she shakes Johnny's confidence in his parents and himself. At ten, Johnny is not mature enough to understand what homosexuals do, but judging from the counselor's comment, it's apparent to him that his parents oppose homosexuality. (The counselor is sure of this because Johnny has completed untold numbers of questionnaires revealing details about his family--from what they read to how they worship.)

The counselor blindsides Johnny on five levels. First, she provides a justification for not abiding by his parents' values. ("They're from another generation.") Then, she strokes Johnny's ego by implying he is more mature than he actually is. ("You're a big boy now.") Next, she plants the idea that his parents' ethics are shallow. ("It's not surprising they wouldn't be tolerant.") Then, she forces Johnny to choose between two opposing authorities under the pretext of thinking independently. ("You can make up your own mind.") Finally, she legitimizes a lifestyle his parents probably oppose. ("Would you want someone looking at you as a 'dumb soccer jock'?")

How can Johnny go to his parents with this? He probably won't even remember the context in which this conversation occurred. How will Johnny resolve the conflict? He doesn't have the opportunity to do that, because the counselor's question called for a response on the spot.

When cognitive dissonance is employed against an unsuspecting person--or worse, against a captive audience such as schoolchildren--the short-term objective is to prompt insecure individuals to find company, leading to a group (mob) mentality. This makes it easier to reverse values held by the majority. "Truth" can even be turned against itself--for example, "freedom of speech" is now used to legitimize pornography. The very people freedom of speech was designed to protect are left not only vulnerable but suspicious of the principle itself.

What "new values" are educators trying to instill? Here is a seven-point list, given to educators in North Carolina at an in-service workshop:

There is no right or wrong, only conditioned responses. The collective good is more important than the individual.

Consensus is more important than principle.

Flexibility is more important than accomplishment. Nothing is permanent except change.

All ethics are situational; there are no moral absolutes. There are no perpetrators, only victims.

Notice that all of the items on this list involve no particular issue; rather, they reflect ethical "outcomes" that a child is supposed to "internalize." So cognitive dissonance is not quite brainwashing, and it's not quite subliminal advertising, either. It's more like setting somebody up for a psychological fall. It plays with the mind by pitting various perceived "authorities" against one another and exacerbating tensions. After a while, intellectual deliberations shut down, and emotions take over. Only the strongest-willed individuals can hold out--the "troublemakers."

Classrooms are rife with examples of cognitive dissonance. Take The Cry of the Marsh, an environmentalist film shown in many seventh-grade science classes. It opens with an idyllic, rustic landscape--birds singing in the trees, mother ducks leading their young on a pleasant excursion down a creek, rabbits scampering over the ground. The scene oozes fresh air, sunshine, and peace.

Suddenly, a tractor-bulldozer appears. The camera zooms in on the word "AMERICAN" on the side of the yellow vehicle, which is actually the name of the company that manufactured the equipment, though young viewers are left to interpret it as "an American bulldozer." Because of the camera angle, the vehicle looks like a tank. It overturns everything in its path--shrubs, grass, plants. Exhaust fills the air.

A man jumps out of the front seat and goes over to the embankment to drain the creek where the ducklings had been following their mother. Another man brings a can of gasoline, pours it over the surrounding area, and ignites it. As the men drive away, flames leap into the air. Trees catch fire. Living creatures run for cover.

Suddenly, the ducklings--which, by that time, have emerged on the other side of the creek--are overcome by encroaching flames and burned alive. Nests of baby birds come crashing to the ground, and the camera zooms in on what is left. In a final close-up, the tractor-bulldozer is shown plowing under the remains of the nest, the ducklings, and some bird eggs.

As the scene fades from the screen, a sentence flashes: "Man cannot foresee or forestall. He will end by destroying the earth." After the film ends, pupils are divided into groups for a canned discussion activity: "Who Shall Populate the Planet?"

Why does this exercise meet the definition of cognitive dissonance? First, there is subliminal deception and psychological impact--the way "AMERICAN" is depicted, the camera angle, the carnage. The last frame in the film condemns mankind wholesale--we will kill off our own species and, possibly, the planet itself. There is no issue to debate. The film aims for the gut, not for intellectual discussion. For all the children know, the men were creating mayhem in the forest purely for pleasure.

Finally, the follow-up exercise requires immediate decision-making--by consensus and under pressure. By the time the children get home, they can be counted on to have forgotten the relationship of the activity to the film and, therefore, will have no context to bring to their bewildered parents, who, no doubt, will hear impassioned outbursts over the ensuing weeks and months about grown-ups "destroying our world!" Parents aren't likely either to see the film or to hear any description of the follow-up activity that triggered this reaction.

With this curriculum under their belt, youngsters are deemed prepared to weigh in on such topics as urban sprawl, nuclear waste, and global warming, all of which require considerably more advanced study than seventh-graders possess. But these particular seventh-graders, prepped as they are, will be quite full of politically correct opinions that they cannot articulate.

Cognitive dissonance is not so much about skewing questions, interjecting bias, or censoring information as it is about a controlled-stress approach to precipitating conflict and overwhelming rational thought. The tactic relies largely on obscuring the lines between "authority," "loyalty," and ego.

You didn't "brainwash" your child into believing that a teacher, policeman, or minister is an authority figure. That's much too strong a term. You did, however, transmit the notion. What happens, then, when one of those authority figures forces your child to choose among them or tries to marginalize the others? The answer largely depends on which authority figure the child spends the most time with and which one the child perceives as being the greater threat to his pride.

Thanks to a culture that increasingly keeps children with their peers and away from their parents, most youngsters today view their classmates as the authority figures--as the persons having the greatest effect on their ego. Unethical educators capitalize on this; they use children to punish and report on other youngsters, then call it "peer pressure" or "classroom dynamics."

Herbert Marcuse identified adolescents as the perfect targets--eager, always, to become independent of their parents but still needy of approval. A fan of Germany's Kurt Lewin, who conducted the first groundbreaking experiments to induce neurosis on a mass scale, Marcuse combined the anti-authoritarianism of Erich Fromm with Karl Marx's theory of alienation (people will do almost anything to avoid ostracism or ridicule) and put it to work. If you could get impressionable young people to believe they were thinking independently, even while performing mob-dependent acts, you could start a revolution, he wrote.

Marcuse went on to foment and organize (usually behind the scenes) many of the campus riots of the 1960's. He understood that it was easier to manipulate groups than individuals. In dealing with team players, you reduce the chance of "lone rangers" who attempt to solve problems on their own initiative.

The key was to blur the lines between dependence and loyalty. Marcuse's students confused group loyalty with herd approval. "We're all in this together" became a recruitment slogan. Today, it's a rallying cry for every agitator with a cause, especially in the social sciences, which, increasingly, includes education.

By placing "interdependence" over "rugged individualism" and a herd mentality over personal principle, educators have scuttled American ideals about self-reliance and personal integrity. If it is politically correct to accept promiscuous behavior as "normal" and monogamy as "religious extremism," then anyone who balks is a pariah.

Thus was my generation (the Baby Boomers) educated to "need" our peers more than we needed our principles, making us easy marks for such tactics as cognitive dissonance. Our children are now sitting ducks, with civilized norms forever under attack.

Consider the following scenario: A pregnant young woman contracts German measles. After a sonogram and an amniocentesis, she is told her unborn child has serious deformities. Two simultaneous and incompatible messages will plague this woman, both bolstered by the media: First, If I go through with the pregnancy and birth, I am a bad person because I am opting, voluntarily, to commit this child to a tortured existence that I could have prevented. Second, If I terminate this pregnancy, I am a bad person because I have murdered my baby. Conclusion: No matter what I do, I am a bad person.

Enter the "third party," an advertisement: "Just do it!" "Take control of your life!" "Be a decision-maker!" "Do what feels right!"

Unless this woman can "default" to firm principles one way or the other, she is a candidate for suicide. She has been given a justification for not abiding by an earlier generation's values; her ego is stroked by implying she has more decision-making power than she really has (she can't undo the German measles); she has been taught that life-and-death dilemmas are inconveniences, not moral decisions; she must choose between two opposing authorities, God and "science," under the pretext of thinking independently; and, finally, all choices are equally legitimized.

Today, cognitive dissonance is an institutionalized method used to force-feed whatever is politically expedient. In a climate where fear of alienation vastly outweighs fear of moral corruption, what has happened to "intellectual freedom"?

B.K. Eakman, a former teacher and the current executive director of the National Education Consortium, is the author of Cloning of the American Mind: Eradicating Morality Through Education (Huntington House). Her website is www.BeverlyE.com .
2 posted on 09/30/2002 3:33:22 PM PDT by Saundra Duffy
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To: Saundra Duffy
Belated bump for Jesse.
3 posted on 09/30/2002 3:34:07 PM PDT by Saundra Duffy
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To: Saundra Duffy
I once, well actually many times, got into an "argument" on a delphi forum bulletin board on this topic. They (Homosexuals and Democrats) loved to argue about Matthew Shephard and that the news was not slanted towards the gay and democrat agenda. I proved them wrong with these sites.

http://home.arkansasusa.com/dlackey/dirkhisingreport.htm
http://www.datelineheaven.com/Archives/032301/032301.html
http://www.dadi.org/wt_brape.htm
http://www.capitalismmagazine.com/2002/march/le_pc_murder.htm
http://www.capitalismmagazine.com/2001/march/mm_dirkhising.htm
http://www.newscorridor.com/columnists/hand/2001Columns/handcolumn031401.htm
http://conwebwatch.tripod.com/stories/2001/jesse.html
http://www.aim.org/publications/media_monitor/2001/04/6.html
http://www.aim.org/publications/weekly_column/1999/12/02.htm
http://www.alliance4lifemin.org/jessedirkhising.html
http://www.jewsforlife.org/article-politics/article_2001_03_23_4935.html
http://www.whitesurvival.com/Articles/jesse_dirkhising.htm
http://www.unc.edu/dth/archives/2000/09/091200/col.html
http://www.frontpagemag.com/gopostal/1999/gp12-20-99.htm
http://www.cnsnews.com/Culture/Archive/CUL19991110c.html
http://www.reclaimamerica.org/PAGES/fastfacts/HateCrimes2.pdf
http://www.gregoryhand.com/2001archive/031401.html
http://www.inoohr.org/jessed.htm
http://www.worthynews.com/commentary/jesse-double-standard.html
http://www.rightgrrl.com/2001/jesse.shtml
4 posted on 09/30/2002 3:34:40 PM PDT by Coleus
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Bless you! Thanks for the truth! Poor Jesse. He will not be forgotten.
5 posted on 09/30/2002 3:36:23 PM PDT by Saundra Duffy
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To: Coleus
BUMP for your links, pal. Thanks!
6 posted on 09/30/2002 3:40:23 PM PDT by Saundra Duffy
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To: Saundra Duffy
Balfe said that the defendants’ homosexual conduct was "self-evident" and added, "I didn’t stay away from the homosexual angle in this case to be politically correct."

It's clear to everyone with half a brain that a great many homosexual men are attracted sexually to teenage boys. In (my) Catholic Church, a minority (homosexual priests) has homosexually molested thousands of teenage boys. No one in their right mind would allow their teenage son to be alone with homosexual men.

7 posted on 09/30/2002 3:41:56 PM PDT by yendu bwam
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To: Saundra Duffy
What is this love affair that ordinary, everyday people have with homosexuals?! Especially, people with children.
8 posted on 09/30/2002 3:42:16 PM PDT by Paul Atreides
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To: Saundra Duffy
Spokesmen for homosexual pressure groups like the Human Rights Campaign deplored Jesse’s murder, even as they said it has nothing to do with "gays."

Only fools would believe this. Men who go after teenage boys are homosexual.

9 posted on 09/30/2002 3:43:15 PM PDT by yendu bwam
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To: Paul Atreides
What is this love affair that ordinary, everyday people have with homosexuals?! Especially, people with children.

A lot of parents in the Catholic Church are rueing the day they let their sons be around homosexual priests.

10 posted on 09/30/2002 3:44:10 PM PDT by yendu bwam
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In order to be politically correct, you're supposed to worship homosexuals, invite them into your home, have them baby-sit for your kids, etc. If you shun homosexuals, you're considered a hate monger. This article is considered hate speech. We can't win. Welcome to Bill & Hillary Clinton's America.
11 posted on 09/30/2002 3:46:30 PM PDT by Saundra Duffy
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To: yendu bwam
Then, how do they explain NAMBLA?
12 posted on 09/30/2002 3:46:46 PM PDT by Paul Atreides
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Then, how do they explain NAMBLA?

Good question.

13 posted on 09/30/2002 3:47:54 PM PDT by Saundra Duffy
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To: Paul Atreides
They can't.
14 posted on 09/30/2002 3:48:46 PM PDT by yendu bwam
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To: Saundra Duffy
Here on FR, didn't someone post an article about the murder of a teen boy, by someone he had met on a NAMBLA site?
15 posted on 09/30/2002 3:49:17 PM PDT by Paul Atreides
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This has happened more than once. What's really creepy about these cases is how the media won't report them, like it's politically incorrect to report about homosexuals being evil killers.
16 posted on 09/30/2002 3:51:12 PM PDT by Saundra Duffy
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I know. Plus, look at what a big deal was made about Matthew Shephard. I will agree that it was a horrible thing that those guys did to him, but had he been straight, and the perps were homosexuals, there would have been no mention of it.
17 posted on 09/30/2002 3:59:01 PM PDT by Paul Atreides
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To: Saundra Duffy
Blame-it-on-the-victims bump
18 posted on 09/30/2002 4:02:03 PM PDT by flyervet
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What's really creepy about these cases is how the media won't report them, like it's politically incorrect to report about homosexuals being evil killers.

Right, or like when blacks kill whites. The press wants us to believe certain things, whether they are true or not.

19 posted on 09/30/2002 4:13:24 PM PDT by yendu bwam
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"like when blacks kill whites"

Last week those Mexican guys in Nebraska killed the people in a bank hold up and I never saw their picture.

July 4, when the Egyptian terrorist killed 2 Jews at LA airport not many pictures and the story died real fast.
20 posted on 09/30/2002 4:46:13 PM PDT by BeAllYouCanBe
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