What if she's "grown up?"
Or is "grown up" a subjective standard that you apply arbitrarily when you aren't castigating posters for their bad grammar, lack of historical learning, lack of understanding of law and lack of good breeding and etiquette.
We can't all be daughters of the Mayflower born in to affluence and married to captains of industry merrily passing our time drinking mint juleps and watching the "little people" day trade on the market while the "players" pass important information to the likes of the Gold Coast regulars.
As for tyhe rest of your silly, jealous sounding, delusional rant ( it says far more about YOU , than you hoped it would say about me ... and get your crystal ball fixed, BTW ) ... you haven't a clue.