Clinton NEVER gave sensible people the idea that his power was sexy. He just showed them that power can be sleazy!
Rumsfeld did not seek to have anyone think that he is sexy. WE decided that he was.
It's NOT demeaning to think someone is sexy and to say so!! To say that is to imply that we are incapable of having more than one thought at a time! We can be dead serious about politics - the war - and many other things and still think that Rummy is sexy!
Sure, there might have been the occasional article about the looks of a leader contributing to his popularity among women, but it was left at a subliminal level for the most part, and not a common topic of discussion and comparison, dissected to death.
If you find Rummy sexy, fine. What I'm saying is that I doubt you'd have been talking about it in polite company until Clinton broke those bounds of decency.