It's sad that some folks don't have the capability of putting themselves in other people's shoes, so they can see, feel, and experience what that other person has gone through, and is still going through, in an attempt to understand why it might be harder for that other person to move on from the evil, dishonesty, and disloyalty that they have faced for the past 8 years. You make it sound so easy with your rose-colored glasses.
Not really. I try to face reality, even when I do not like it.