Oh, how touching! What bravery! What integrity!
In truth, the courageous path would be to deny yourself the carnal perversion and commit yourself to the vows you made to your husband and family.
But no. It’s all about you and your right to self-indulgence, no matter who gets hurt in the process.
Soul crushing for the husband. Hopefully he successfully untangles from her and keeps a good relationship with the kids.