The media has put out 100 different versions of every facet. Who the hell knows at this point. Too much time has passed in there has bee too much information twisted.
Sometimes, when an event happened that assumes importance a year or more after the fact, it gets replayed, different information comes out, and well, you’re not really sure exactly who said exactly what, when. Your impression might not change, but your detailed memory isn’t always truly detailed and carved in stone.
Speaking from some business lawsuit experience, where later information about people’s motives sometimes colors your impression of what you remember.