Amazing how many people don't pick up on this like you have. White Protestant culture is very individualistic. Even within the family, we tend to be formal and a little aloof. On the positive side, I think it is why we have accomplished so much. White parents tend to let their kids become whoever they're going to be. And in terms of society, we don't police each other. Weirdos and loners thrive in white society. Eccentricity is accepted. But the down side is, unless we have numbers on our side, or a very specific cause to rally around, we could be overrun by clannish hordes. I used to joke that the only way to get whites to riot is to first get them together at a concert or sporting event, THEN get them angry. It has to be in that order or you'll just get a lot of strongly-worded e-mails.
If you give white men a uniform and official sanction they will kill everything that moves.
It’s the “official sanction” part that’s tricky.