You make an excellent point. If they hate everyone (apart from themselves) maybe they are not actually racist...
I think you’re right. They aren’t racist because they hate everyone.
I think you’re wrong about one thing though. Most of them at heart even hate themselves. Why else would they abort their own children? Selfishness doesn’t cover it. If you hate humanity that much that you want to prevent the next generation from being born you must harbor a great hatred even for yourself.