As a guy that had my 17 year old girlfriend (when I was the same age), stolen by a 35 year old , I personally think all men that date teenagers are (insert not pleasant diatribe here).
Obviously it takes two, but you guys need to stick to your own frickin age pool.
You can spin it all you want, but if a 30 something year old man was hanging around your teen daughter, you would not be all sunshine and flowers about it. She isnt a “women”, she is just a teenager you wont get arrested for sleeping with.
Frankly it is gross. At my age, I wouldn’t dream of even associating with a teenager as even a friend.
But again tha’s just me.