By the same token:
How do you find the right man when the wrong men swarm?
Regards,
There are no easy answers, but I've been married 44 years to the same women, and I found her singing in the church choir. There was another girl there, though, that I had dated previously that so much was not the one. :)
“How do you find the right man when the wrong men swarm?”
That is probably a challenge for intelligent women in the “Unicorns” region of the “Hot Crazy Matrix”. I don’t know if there is an efficient answer.