Teen daughters in their selfish insanity can live so inside your head that you can’t think of any non-harmful options to deal with them.
Been there.
Having said that, the key is to get away and do a spiritual re-set, then re-engage peacefully. The girl herself believes that she is dumb and ugly, so being cruel in any way simply cements it in her frail heart. This dad lost his perspective, his daughter and his freedom.
I am convinced that the teenage years are an evolutionary trait designed to make parents want their kids to leave the nest.