Agree, but if it might be your last chance to see your mom you might decide it’s worth it. I read upthread her mom has cancer.
I would have driven 150 mph if it gave me a chance to spend time with my dad.
I’m not unsympathetic. But she she still needs to slow down. And I say that as someone who’s been in her shoes. A few times.
"...last chance to see an ailing mom..."