In answer to your rude question, I assumed that role myself and I plan on continuing to do so when the situation warrants it. It is a simple extension of “see something, say something”. If somebody throws trash on the sidewalk, I say something. I open doors for folks to. And no, I do not stand around monitoring handicap spaces. Do you think that everybody who parks in a handicap space is legitimate? That is certainly not my experience in Massachusetts. Hopefully, my polite interventions have meant that folks like your husband have a greater chance of getting the space that they need. Snowflakes come from all ends of the political spectrum.
Maybe if you ever get to Heaven, you can help God judge people. What a busybody! And I’m no snowflake. If you were stopping real crimes, that’s one thing, but handicap tags aren’t given out unless they’re needed.